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03-04-2009, 09:56 PM
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#1 | | Moderator
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|  Mariage Decision
Hi dear brothers and sister
I found this topic somewhere and I loved the idea and I like to share with you ...
Why (we) men hesitant when wanna tack the decision to marry, we feel comfortable with a girlfriend, good connexion and confidence on here ... But never ready for marriage .. not to all men it's not general , i'm not saying that all men are like that, but very common among them .. some of them feel always young again or that want to "enjoy life" ...
To you dear friends
feel free to express your point of view | 
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03-04-2009, 10:16 PM
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#2 | | Registred User
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For moroccans:
When you marry a girl, you marry her family too, that's the principal problem with Moroccans, marriage is always complicated! I don't wanna get married! 
Last edited by Pikarey; 03-05-2009 at 12:58 AM.
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03-05-2009, 12:48 AM
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#3 | | Morocco Enthusiast
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I think it depends on each one situation. Speaking of Moroccans Pikarey has a point when you get married to a girl you all her family are behind your back. I think men in Morocco hesitate to ask a girl for marriage primary for their economic situation: job market, housing market etc.. they know marriage comes with lot of responsibilities and maybe they are just not ready for them or not sure if they can handle them.
Personally I don't mind asking for marriage, I just think I'm not ready yet (almost there)  | |
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03-05-2009, 03:31 PM
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personally i tried once and i got the same situation that Mr Pikary Said , so i will not try an other one , i'm fine right now | |
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03-05-2009, 09:03 PM
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#5 | | Registred User
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Originally Posted by MrRight  personally i tried once and i got the same situation that Mr Pikary Said , so i will not try an other one , i'm fine right now | Think you have problems I've been there 3 times 
But the last one seems to be working  | |
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03-05-2009, 11:12 PM
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#6 | | Super Moderator
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Many people believe that a stable and long-lasting relationship should lead to a wedding. Nowadays, young people are not in a hurry to settle down, realizing that that’s a serious commitment. That means that for a start, every other aspect of their lives should be in order – graduating from college, getting a good job, pulling in a good-size paycheck to support their families. Men are reluctant about getting serious, so if women don’t bring up their future together, nothing may ever happen, and that’s why women usually initiate the first step.
Women think that serious dating should lead to marriage and the acknowledgement that she deserves to be a wife and mother. When a man refuses to marry a woman, she tends to blame herself. Feeling this way doesn’t let her think as rationally as the man does.
For men, getting married is making a commitment to support families and raise children. Unlike a woman, a man may realize that he isn’t ready to commit to anyone and be a perfect husband. If he gives in and settles down when he isn’t ready for it, the woman is going to remind him soon of his commitment. Marriage inevitably transforms relationships. Both sides get new rights and responsibilities, while when simply living together people have a feeling of freedom, carelessness and no commitment. If a man and a woman are officially married, the purchases made while they are married belong to both spouses, and if they want to get divorced, the divorce process will be long and painful.
For some people, getting married is a serious life milestone and it may take time to get used to each other. For some, before a man and woman head down the aisle , they need to live together for some time to see how compatible they are. A man first sees a girlfriend in a woman, not a wife. At the initial stage of their relationship, people should find out what their mutual interests and life priorities are.People who truly love each other may get married sooner or later for the sake of children.
Last edited by flowerbomb; 03-05-2009 at 11:15 PM.
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03-15-2009, 04:57 PM
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#7 | | Moderator
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it looks so defficult now to take this kind of decision | |
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03-16-2009, 07:51 PM
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#8 | | Registred User
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Originally Posted by MrRight it looks so defficult now to take this kind of decision | Just need to meet the right girl MrRight and everything else will fall into place.
Oh! and a lot of luck  | |
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03-18-2009, 05:13 AM
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#9 | | Super Moderator
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Marriage is about communication , compromise and respect after that it is all cake. | |
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03-18-2009, 05:24 AM
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#10 | | Morocco Enthusiast
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Originally Posted by Esteve | I'm impressed, I guess it's the experience talking "lot of luck". I do believe that marriage is about the love of God (not the I love you version one), respect and lot of luck.
when you love someone in the love of God, you will do it truthfully, with respect and big chance to last forever. marriage is like opening a box of chocolate, you will never ever know what's inside, no matter what until you unwrap it. it could be good or it could be bad.
it's good to eat the chocolate, dark, white, Belgian or Moroccan. just pray that God will give you the right, rich, tasty one!
I guess some of us already did!  Good luck single ladies and gentlemen!
remember marriage is a gift from God. | |
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